Find the block
The Love Success Assessment™ measures what's actually running your relationships — your blocks, your readiness, your feminine energy, your archetype, and the stage you're in right now. Patent pending. Not a personality quiz.
You were never meant to choose between the woman you worked so hard to become and the love you still want.
Bonding Biology™ works with the patterns that decide who you're drawn to, what you do once someone gets close, and how hard you make everything else — Love Blocks®, feminine power, and nervous-system regulation. Not more dating advice. The layer underneath it.
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The answer isn't meeting more men. It's changing what decides who you choose, who you attract, what feels familiar, and how you respond once attachment begins.
That's where Bonding Biology™ begins.
Every strategy you've tried sat on top of a pattern nobody addressed. This works the other direction — the body first, the behavior second, the relationship last. That order is why it holds.
The Love Success Assessment™ measures what's actually running your relationships — your blocks, your readiness, your feminine energy, your archetype, and the stage you're in right now. Patent pending. Not a personality quiz.
Love Blocks® live in the nervous system, so that's where the work happens. Regulation, embodiment, and pattern interruption — until the reaction that used to run you stops firing.
When the block clears, your standards change on their own. You stop being pulled toward what's familiar and start being drawn to what's healthy — and you can finally recognize it when it shows up.
Every woman who comes to us starts in the same place: knowing something is off, and having no language for what. The Love Success Assessment™ gives it a name, a number, and a starting point — before you spend another year guessing.
It is not a personality quiz and it does not tell you your love language. It measures the specific things that decide how your relationships go, and it scores them.
Built on eighteen years of practice and eleven established sciences. Patent pending.
“The first 15 minutes with Shay were worth more than 10 years of therapy.”
Thanks to Boss Diva University, I now have the tools to transform every area of my life and turn tragedies into triumphs. This program gave me the clarity and strength I needed to face my challenges. I am now living a life filled with confidence, peace, and happiness.
“Your peace and healing are priceless.”
My name is Sheema Alexa Regimand, and I found Shay on TikTok while scrolling. At first, it was her energy and dancing that caught my attention, but when I listened to her content, I knew I needed her in my life. Shay made me realize that I am lovable, worthy, and the prize—I don’t need to chase or hope for anyone because I’m amazing. She helped me embrace putting myself first, healing my trauma, and stepping into my power. Since working with Shay, I’ve received a bonus from my job, closed on my dream townhouse, and watched my savings grow. Don’t even think about the money—it’s worth every penny. Your peace and healing have no price tag. Thank you, Shay!
“Keep going—the healing and work you’re doing has a purpose.”
I just wanted to encourage you—the healing and work you’re doing now has a purpose. It truly works. Heal your heart, mind, and soul, and let the universe reward you. I am blessed to have an amazing man in my life who moves mountains for me. He is God’s gift, and I wouldn’t be here if I hadn’t invested in myself. For those struggling, don’t give up—there is a man out there waiting for you.
“Boss Diva University transformed my life.”
Boss Diva University changed my life. Shay helped me connect with my true self and recognize the queen within me. I now know my worth, my value, and that I am the prize. Everything about me has transformed—the way I see myself, the way I walk, dress, and even the way others see me. Before Shay, my life was stagnant—no invitations, no connections. Now, my social life is thriving, I’m surrounded by amazing friends, and men can’t help but notice me. This experience has been pure magic!
“I’ve healed beyond expectation.”
Hi Divas, I wanted to share my Before (Left) & After (Right) photos as I’m nearing my year mark since joining DU. Before DU, I was broken and silent. Now I’m beautiful, feminine, confident, and worthy. I’ve gained a sisterhood I didn’t know I needed. Joining DU completely transformed my life, and I’m so proud of the woman I’ve become. I’ve healed in ways I never thought possible.
“Choosing me changed everything.”
I chose me and found so much more. Shay and the Boss Diva program helped me heal, recognize my worth, and attract the love I deserve. Now, I’m married to my soulmate, Ray, who loves me and my family unconditionally and moves mountains for me every day. Investing in myself changed everything—don’t give up, your soulmate is waiting for you too.
Knowing exactly where you are is the first step. Everything we do begins with it.
Your assessment is included from the first month of membership — and it is the map your coach, your app, and every program you ever take is built around.The nervous system that makes you over-function at work is the same one that makes you over-function in a relationship. The pattern that has you choosing men who need managing is the pattern that has you building a business that needs managing. Same wiring. Different room.
This is why women who clear their Love Blocks® report something they weren't expecting: work gets easier too. Not because we taught them a business strategy — because the thing making everything harder finally stopped running.
You don't have to become less ambitious, less independent, or less powerful to be deeply loved. And you don't have to give up the love to keep building. That was never the trade.
Three levels of support. You start where you are and move up when you're ready — not when someone sells you.
Change the pattern on your own time with the digital programs and the HerPocketCoach™ app.
Add live coaching, accountability, community, dating guidance, and twelve months in the room with Shay.
High-touch personal support across love, dating, marriage — and where it applies, business and abundance.
You don't have to work out which one you need alone. Help me choose
Every membership begins with the Love Success Assessment™ — because we don't guess, and neither should you. From there you get the app that learns you, the library, and the community. Start where you are. Upgrade whenever life changes.
For the woman ready to find out what's actually in her way.
For the woman who wants the work guided, not just handed to her.
Our highest level of access short of working with Shay directly.
Cancel anytime. Upgrade anytime. Your assessment and history follow you. Not sure? Ask us
For the woman who wants the methodology and the tools without intensive coaching. Enroll instantly and begin tonight.
Start here. The patterns influencing attraction, bonding, and commitment — and where yours came from.
Feminine power, receptivity, confidence, and emotional regulation — without losing your edge.
Standards, discernment, and elite dating strategy. Become the woman who can choose and sustain extraordinary love.
Every program works alongside your membership, so your transformation doesn't end when a course does.
You need transformation and accountability. Twelve months in the room with Shay, alongside women doing the same work.
For the woman ready to become exceptional at love. Clear your Love Blocks®, build feminine power, date strategically, and attract an emotionally healthy, marriage-minded partner.
Financing is available to qualified applicants through an independent lending partner. Approval, rates, and terms are set by the lender, not by us.
For the woman who doesn't just want a man — she wants her romantic best friend and husband. Goes deeper into identity, regulation, and building a life where extraordinary love and extraordinary success coexist.
Boss Diva is income-qualified. Financing is available to qualified applicants through an independent lending partner, on the lender's terms.
Monthly live class on identity, receiving, and creating more without operating from force.
For women who don't want to navigate this alone and want our highest level of access, strategy, and discretion. By application.
Individualized private support across healing, dating, attraction, relationships, and the road to marriage.
For the woman who wants extraordinary love without sacrificing extraordinary success. Love, feminine leadership, receiving, and abundance built together.
We would rather tell you this now than on a call. Diva University and Boss Diva University are twelve-month commitments with a real financial floor. Below it, the work doesn't hold — and we would rather you stay in membership until the timing is right than start something you have to stop.
Financing is arranged through an independent lending partner. Approval, interest rate, monthly amount, and all terms are determined by the lender based on your own credit and income — we do not extend credit, set rates, or guarantee approval. Income verification is required for Boss Diva University before enrollment is confirmed.
If you're not there yet, that is not a no. Start in membership at $97 a month, do the work, and come back when the timing is yours.
Across every program, in this order.
The same Internal Systems™ work, applied to everything else you lead. For the woman who wants extraordinary success without sacrificing her identity, her relationships, her femininity, or her peace.
Twelve modules, from Becoming Her through to The Integrated Woman™.
We're opening a founding cohort. Add your name and you'll hear before anyone else — including the founding rate.
No pitch. One email when doors open."I want to start on my own."
Digital programs and the app. Starting at $97.
Show me my options"I want Shay, and I want accountability."
Twelve months, live, with structure and a community.
Book my Love Mapping Call"I want private support."
One-to-one, personalized, discreet. By application.
Apply for private supportStill deciding? Ask our concierge
Forty-five private minutes. We start where the Love Success Assessment™ starts — with where you actually are — then name what's keeping you stuck and which level of support makes sense for your goals. Whether or not you ever work with us again.
And $791 of programs come with it, yours to keep either way.
Judy, our concierge, can answer questions and book you in — day or night.
You keep all three whether or not you ever enroll in a program. Calls are limited and reserved for women who qualify — the booking form takes two minutes and tells you straight away.
Real women. Real transformations. Real love.
She approached her own love life the way she'd been trained to approach everything else — as a research project. Then she turned what she found into a methodology for other women.
Today Shay helps accomplished women understand the patterns shaping attraction, bonding, and commitment — and gives them a structured way to change them. Alongside Dr. Michelle Brown, that work now extends into leadership, wealth, and legacy through the Business & Leadership Institute™.
Ask us anything — pricing, timing, whether this works if you've already tried everything. Chat here, or speak with Judy on the phone right now.
Yes — and it's deliberate. Membership is where your assessment lives, where the app learns your history, and where the community is. Every program is built on top of it, so nothing gets repeated and nothing gets lost. It starts at $97 a month.
Because you cannot change a pattern you have never been able to name, and because we refuse to guess. The Love Success Assessment™ tells you what's actually in the way, how ready you are, where your feminine energy sits, which archetype you are, and what stage you're in. Everything after it — your app, your coach, your program — is built on that result. Knowing exactly where you are is the first step. It's included from your first month of membership.
Membership runs $97 to $497 a month and you can start today. The self-paced programs are $97 to $2,700. Diva University begins with a $5,000 enrollment deposit and Boss Diva University with $10,000, both twelve-month commitments, with the balance payable in full or financed. Financing is arranged through an independent lending partner — they set the approval, the rate, and the monthly amount based on your own credit and income. We don't extend credit and we can't guarantee approval. Boss Diva also requires verified income of $100,000 a year or more. If that isn't where you are today, start in membership and come back when it is.
Therapy helps you understand where a pattern came from. This is coaching, and it works on changing the behavior the pattern produces — in the body first, then in how you date. Many of our clients do both. This is not therapy and does not replace it.
Because most of what you've tried was strategy sitting on top of an unaddressed pattern. Advice doesn't clear a Love Block®. If you can recite exactly what you do wrong and still do it, that's the signature of a block — and it's the specific thing this method addresses.
Often the best time to begin. The clearing work doesn't require anyone else in the room, and starting before you're dating means you meet the right person already regulated rather than trying to heal mid-relationship.
It depends where you're starting, which is what the Love Mapping Call establishes. Diva University and Boss Diva University run twelve months because durable nervous-system change takes that long to hold. Self-paced programs you can begin tonight.
It's credited in full toward whichever program you choose.
Investing in yourself cannot cause financial hardship that will cause you to operate unethically. We do not support a woman and sabotaging herself and therefore we encourage you that if you are the type of woman who thinks that you would want to change your mind or go back on yourself to not start your journey unless you're absolutely certain because we do not offer refunds under any circumstances we only offer results.
In Diva University and Boss Diva University, yes — monthly VIP training and Inner Circle coaching, live, all twelve months. Boss Diva also includes two in-person retreats a year. In Elite and Business Boss Diva, you work with her privately.
No. It starts there because that's where most women first notice the pattern — but Love Blocks® don't only show up in relationships. The same wiring that has you over-functioning with a partner has you over-functioning at work. Clearing it changes both. The Business & Leadership Institute™ takes that same work into leadership, wealth, and legacy.
No, and the belief that you do is usually part of the pattern itself. You don't have to become less ambitious, less independent, or less powerful to be deeply loved. The work is learning to stay fully yourself while creating the emotional space to trust, receive, and build with someone else.
Speak with Judy, our concierge, any time — she can answer program questions and book you in. Or use the chat and we'll get you an answer straight away.
You don't need to know the whole path today. You only need to know your next step.